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Decamping, decompressing, unpacking

Pardon me if I look a little tired and bedraggled this week. I am.

I got back from my trip to the poly camp on Monday afternoon. We left a day earlier than originally planned–S’s girlfriend was struggling with allergies and had a really hard time sleeping. She did OK for three days, though, and said she really liked the camp–it was her first camping experience in decades. S is quite used to camping and camp cooking. I fall somewhere in between.

What happened Sunday morning is this: After they walked together to the bathroom (porta-potties), S asked for “a family conference.” Oh? I got dressed and sat in the camp chairs with them around the remnants of our fire from the night before.

S said that with the allergy problems the GF was having and with heavy rain expected to arrive later in the day, we might want to leave now. I hadn’t expected that, but it wasn’t long before I agreed. Things got chaotic after that, as we all scrambled to pack up our gear. To date, two of S’s axes are missing in action–not found yet, anyway.

We packed up the car, said a few good-byes, and started driving away. Just a few minutes later, fat raindrops started falling on my windshield, and dark clouds were noticeable to the west. We drove east and eventually got back to their place in Oshkosh. It sure was hot and stuffy inside. Luckily, their bedroom has a room air-conditioner. Certain creature comforts can’t be found in a tent.

The trip started from Oshkosh last Thursday at about noon, when we packed up my car. Oh, did we ever pack that poor little car! I had cut my gear down to a backpack and a plastic box about six inches high. The girls came equipped for anything. Big duffel bags. Clothes, meds, cooking supplies, cans and bags of food (and we got more, besides), craft supplies and tobacco–they both smoke and roll their own cigarettes, which they seemed to be doing every other time I looked.

You know what it was like? Ever been to the circus, and a clown drives into the ring in a tiny, little car? He stops and gets out. Then another clown gets out. And another. And another. And another. And they keep on coming from somewhere.

Well, we had a clown car. Instead of clowns, we had three people and tons of stuff, jammed and crammed everywhere, including that car carrier attached to the roof. Cooking supplies, clothes, huge duffel bags, camping gear. The car was way overloaded … but we made it there and back.
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It’s a long, long journey

Last year at this time, B and I were talking excitedly about our imminent first encounter and our trip to the poly camp in southern Wisconsin. In our e-mails back and forth, we had been counting down–the count started when we were in triple digits. Exactly one year ago, it was down to a single digit.

Today, for this year’s camp, the countdown has reached 4.

Outside of a quick trip to visit my mom late Saturday afternoon and finishing up a feature story, my main focus this weekend was packing for the trip to this year’s poly camp. I’m planning to hit the road fairly early on Thursday morning; early enough, I hope, to drive about four hours to Oshkosh, pick up S and her GF and then drive another three hours to the event. The driver will probably feel quite weary by then, even before unloading everything from the car and setting up the tent and campsite.

For now, all I can do is get ready. During my trip to Ironwood Tuesday (which included a visit with N), I invested in a backpack (which I will use in place of the larger duffel bag I used last year) and a new supply of condoms (for obvious reasons). During Saturday’s trip, I bought two small LED flashlights (with batteries), four alkaline “D” batteries (for the air mattress) and a second solar shower. We should be OK on flashlights–I think I have four now.

Flashlight overkill is a good idea because we may be roaming around at night in a very dark area, trying to find our way here and there (such as to and from the porta potties). If it’s dark out and clear, star-gazing can be a great deal of fun. Let’s check the moon’s phases. The calendar says the full moon was Saturday, and the last quarter is July 4th. That’s all I could find out at home last night because the internet had gone out.
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Blues Brothers off black list

Well, isn’t that nice?

Thirty years after the movie made its debut, L’Osservatore Romano, the official Vatican newspaper, has given its official stamp of approval on one of my all-time favorite movies: “The Blues Brothers.”

The flick that starred Dan Ackroyd and the late John Belushi has been named on a list of “Catholic Classics,” along with some more predictable entries. It’s a nice switch in perspective. Time can do that.

Back in 1980, the old Legion of Decency in the U.S. gave the film an “adults only” rating. “The plot is interspersed with scenes of wholesale destruction and frenzied chases which are spectacularly unfunny and uninvolving,” said their original review. “Some good musical portions from Cab Calloway and Ray Charles, but not enough depth from director John Landis to save this zany comedy from milking cheap laughs from rough language and crude situations.”

Wholesale destruction? Check. Frenzied chases? Check. Good music? You betcha. Cheap laughs? I suppose. Rough language? If you say so. Crude situations? Yeah, OK.

I’ve loved the movie from when I first saw it way long ago, and who cares what some humorless Catholic bigwigs say. It was just fun. At that time, I wasn’t into blues music–mostly guitar rock and ’60s music and psychedelia. “The Blues Brothers” opened me to a whole new universe, populated by John Lee Hooker and Ray Charles and James Brown and Aretha Franklin and the magnificent Cab Calloway.

With that kind of foothold, I explored further into blues and pop music from past generations. There was much to learn, and I’m still learning it. Today, my iPod has music of many different styles and genres and ages. It’s all good. It’s all wonderful. “The Blues Brothers” helped open me to that world, and I’m terribly grateful.

As for the Legion of Decency (now known as the Office of Film and Broadcasting) … It must be terribly difficult to be so terribly “decent” all the time. To know that the moral fiber of the world hangs on every word you say. To know that if it weren’t for you, people would be exposed to such morally toxic content as “The Blues Brothers” and may even be inspired to explore the new ideas that come to them, ideas that may not come from the pope’s mouth or the pages of the Bible.

I’m sure I have written things over the years that I regret now. That’s part of life and writing for a living–even something as ephemeral as a small weekly paper that nobody cares about outside of town.

As you get older, presumably you get wiser and you learn more things. You get a little more worldly and come to realize that the world doesn’t give a rip how you feel about this and that … nor should it. You also understand that you’re just one little person, and one little person can’t change the world. So you do what you can in your own little way by being a human being and treating other human beings with kindness and respect and love.

At times, that has led me towards the church. At other times, it has led be away from it.

Can’t say how “The Blues Brothers” has influenced your life. But it made my life a little happier. And I believe in happy.

Planning for poly camp

All through March, April and May, I had been worrying about our weather. How warm it was–much warmer than normal. Especially how dry it was–much, much drier than normal.

And then June arrived.

Flipping the calendar to June apparently did the trick: Since then, we have had plenty of rain. Just rain–no thunderstorms. But you should see how lush and healthy all the weeds on my lawn look now!

I was out, covering a truck pull earlier Friday night. Some of you may have read how scintillating I find truck pulls. On Saturday night, it’s a demo derby, and Sunday has a car show, art fair and steak cookoff. How tasty!

No rain over the weekend–it’s supposed to be back next week. Today it got close to 90 here. But it was a dry 90, with low dewpoints, so it was nice. Major storms passed through southern Wisconsin and the Lower Peninsula and northern Illinois (plus all the storms in Minnesota last night). It was cloudy here for a while. That was as close to rain as we got.

Of course, I’ve been following the World Cup, too.

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Since last week’s visit to S and her friend, I have been planning for our visit to the poly camp during the first days of July. It’s been eventful.

My mission: I am to drive the three of us to the annual event, which takes place in southwestern Wisconsin. I will first drive to Oshkosh (eastern WI) to pick them up and then the three of us ride together–it’s about 130 miles away on state highways. A three-hour drive.
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Betwixt and between

Transition time. Last night, June 9, the Stanley Cup playoffs ended when the Chicago Blackhawks defeated the Philadelphia Flyers in overtime to win the big mug for the first time since 1961.

Tomorrow, June 11, the World Cup opens in South Africa. The world-wide soccer competition lasts for a month and will hold much of the world in thrall. The sports-obsessed, non-American part of it, at least.

I may not exactly be in thrall, but I will be watching the action whenever I can. Where I live (Central Daylight Time, which is UCT-5), the games will be broadcast live in the morning and afternoon. South Africa is seven hours ahead of us.

That’s what I told my wife. We just completed the annual Stanley Cup marathon, which is two months of hockey nearly every night–two games a night during the early stages. I watch as much as I can. Once in a while, she joins me for a little while. Otherwise, it’s Hallmark movies or the History Channel–she was delighted to see that a new season of “Ice Road Truckers” is starting.

I told her the bad news first: As soon as the Stanley Cup ends, the World Cup starts.

Then I told her the good news: The games will be played in the morning and afternoon where we live. So there won’t be live games played during the evening, when we often to sit together and watch TV.

But, in the name of full disclosure, I guess I have to tell her sooner or later the bad news: CBC will broadcast a “game of the day” in prime time. during the evening, and then another game at 11 p.m. (Don’t know if it’s the same game as at 7 p.m.)

ESPN is broadcasting the games live in the States but won’t be having any prime-time replays. A few games will be repeated during late night or overnight hours, as it suits their needs for “content.”

Of course, I will pay special attention to the U.S. team, especially its Saturday game against the U.K.–their most important game of the group stage. The thinking is that the U.S. will get out its group and make it as far as the group of 16 before the water gets too deep.

But once they are eliminated, I will keep watching it to the end. It should be a good show. South Africa is a beautiful country.

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Betwixt and between, I got out of town two days this week to visit S and her girlfriend. I drove down on Tuesday and returned Wednesday. It wasn’t a long visit, and I went by myself.

We had planned to all go down to visit a wildlife park/farm south of Oshkosh, but it was raining too hard, so we spent Tuesday afternoon at their place, watching several recorded episodes of the “Angel” TV series, about this vampire with a human soul. It’s by Joss Whedon, who made the “Firefly” series–I really liked that. Several hours passed by. Maybe I dozed off. An “Angel” marathon isn’t what I had expected–but I didn’t expect rain, either.

Then it was time to get some supper. We went to Golden Corral for their buffet. While eating, we talked about some plans. I am going to take them to the neopagan camp this year; we are going to stuff everything into my little car and go there during the first days of July. (Last year, B flew down from Alaska to go there with me–but she can’t get away this year.)

S has been there just once–five years ago, which is when I first met her. She has been wanting to go back ever since, but circumstances (her husband) didn’t permit it until now. Her GF, of course, just moved up to Wisconsin this year, so she hasn’t been there. This year’s theme is “deep friendship,” which is a topic that resonates with all of us.

While eating, we also talked about other stuff. They hadn’t yet seen “Alice in Wonderland” with Johnny Depp, which just came out on DVD. So we stopped at Target to get it, went home, popped it on the DVD player and enjoyed that. Then, off to a bar, about two blocks away. It had been S’s birthday the day before, and we had a couple drinks to mark the occasion. I had a rum and cola, which was, eh, OK, and a Smirnoff pomegranate cooler, which I liked much better.

From there, I drove us all home. They saved me some money by putting me up for the night, and the accommodations were very soft and warm and pleasant.

The GF slept in Wednesday morning, so S and I got up and talked for a while before I hit the road for home. I got back about 3 p.m., and my wife and I quickly went out for some shopping.

I made a mistake during the trip, though. I had wanted to call her late that night. I did call after I arrived there (while watching “Angel”). She wanted me to call again between 8 and 10–we were watching the movie then, and I had turned the phone off. Alas, I forgot to turn it back on before leaving for the bar. By the time I remembered, it was nearly 11, and she is usually in bed by then. So I called her in the morning to make sure all was well.

So it goes.

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Get out the ark! We may need it.

The weather forecast is talking about 1/4 to 1/2 inch of rain tonight … 3/4 to an inch on Friday … and 1/2 to 3/4 inches Friday night. Don’t think I will be driving very far on Friday. (Earlier, they had talked about 1 to 2 inches Friday, but that’s been cut back. One inch is plenty enough.)

Better round up the ice cream buckets. We have a leak in one corner of the attic roof, and the ice cream buckets come in handy.

‘The kids’ come to visit

Our visitors left early Monday morning. Even earlier than me. I was getting up early to take pictures at an 8 a.m. Memorial Day ceremony out of town, but when I got out of bed at about 6:45, I glanced out the window, and there they were, packing stuff in their car.

They came back upstairs to say good-bye. A final hug or two, and then they were gone. It wasn’t even 7 a.m.

Thus ended a short but eventful visit by my son and his girlfriend over the holiday weekend. They started the long, long trip north Friday night by bucking heavy traffic escaping the Detroit metro area for the first extended weekend of the summer (didn’t get as far that night as they wanted). They called about mid-afternoon Saturday when they got to Escanaba (putting us both one hour from Iron Mountain), and we agreed upon an exotic rendezvous: Hardee’s, home of the Thickburger.

We got there first and ordered a soda. About 10 minutes later, we saw his blue Prius pull into the parking lot and roll past our window. “Here comes destiny,” I said softly to my wife. They climbed out of the car and walked inside.
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Anticipation!

Remember that commercial from years back? The thick, red, Heinz ketchup oozing out of the bottle at a snail’s pace onto some unsuspecting french fries as a Carly Simon song plays in the background?

Anticipation!

That’s what it’s been like this week for us, as we try to prepare for our older son coming home for Memorial Day … accompanied by a girlfriend. This has never happened before, you know, and as the final days slowly tick away, we are feeling anticipation … along with anxiety and nervousness and excitement.

Since both of them will be working on Friday, the most recent plan is for them to leave the Detroit area that night. There is bound to be very heavy traffic northbound on I-75 into the night–the classic long weekend holiday getaway–so I hope they will be realistic about how far they will travel before they get tired and find someplace to crash before finishing the trip on Saturday.

It’s about 550 miles, you know. In terms of kilometers: 885. She will get to see the Mackinac Bridge (which links Michigan’s two peninsulas) for the first time …

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She might see some deer …

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She will see two- and three-lane undivided highways all the way west from the bridge (and that’s half the distance) …

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(That’s a file photo from last fall, by the way. Not current conditions. Except the road, which hasn’t been upgraded for many years.)

When they get to Escanaba (I’m guesstimating that will be early afternoon Saturday), he will call us at home. Iron Mountain is about an hour away from both places; we will decide which unsuspecting eatery will have the honor of hosting our first encounter (unfortunately, it’s too late for us to take bids). Once we meet, we’ll have a snack and a long visit. From there, we will visit my mom (all of us) and then head for home.

That’s the part my wife is stressing about. She is far from the world’s most efficient housekeeper–let’s be honest about that–and now it’s finally catching up with her. She wanted to get some work done on straightening up the house last weekend and early this week. But it got hot and humid late last week and stayed that way until lats night.

It’s cloudy and cooler now, but she’s worried about all the housework that remains. She worked on the house Wednesday and will continue today and Friday. But she also has cats that need/demand her attention and babying. Especially her old cat (17 years old–”Mom’s baby” I call her) who is very demanding and apparently needs many “kitty breaks,” which is when my wife sits and holds and cuddles her. She will try to ignore the sewing machine and my computer, too. Those inanimate objects at times can be as demanding as the old cat and as impossible to resist.

All of a sudden, time is running down on her. You can ignore the clock, folks, but you can’t stop time.

I’ll help her out, of course. I did last night. We worked on the spare bedroom where they will be staying–removing the boxes from the new computer and printer, which somehow wound up there, and clearing some stuff away. We got a bit of work done, and we’ll do more tonight.

I’m not stressing about the house. Got enough stuff to worry about, anyway. All those indefatigable dandelions, for instance. They’ll get there’s. Again.

I’m looking forward to meeting and getting to know her. My son has been extremely stingy with information and facts about her, aside that she is five years younger than him. So she should expect lots of questions. Inquiring minds want to know, after all.

After we finished working last night, we sat on the front porch for a while as the sun was setting, shared a Dr. Pepper and talked about it. All we want, we agreed, is for her to be relaxed and happy around us. That works both ways, I’m sure. You see, we have never been in this position before. And he’s 33. ‘Bout time, don’t you think? Well, it’s hard when you are overly shy and too prone to rationalizations.

One unanswered issue: How much should our younger son be around? Part if the time, of course, but not a lot. The main goal–of everyone–is to get to know each other. Frankly, we can be more frank and adult when he isn’t around.

I’m sure we will like her. We will accept her as she is, and hope she does the same. That’s the key to lasting friendships. The sad part is, we don’t have a lot of time to just talk. You know, about things. About life. They’re here for maybe a day and a half. On Monday morning, they’re back on the road for that 550-mile drive back home, and I’m off covering Memorial Day ceremonies.

First game of the Stanley Cup finals is also on Saturday night. The DVR will have to watch it for me. I’ve got much bigger fish to fry that night.

Late update: This morning, he texted me a request to get some pasties for a lunch during their visit. So she will learn first-hand what this classic example of U.P. cuisine really is …

Half-eaten U.P.-style pasty

By the way, that’s how a pasty should look … half-eaten and soon to be completely consumed.

Thoughts from an empty mind

Oof! Who turned on the heat!? Turn it off already!

Midsummer temperatures crashed into our area over the last few days. And how! Late last week, it got hot and humid, with highs in the upper 80s (31C) and humidity to match. We got to about 92 (33C) on Monday, and it’s going to be hot again on Tuesday. With this kind of heat now, you have to wonder what summer is going to be like.

(Luckily, the heat will ease off in time for our visitors’ arrival this weekend. Highs in the 70s and lows in the 40s.)

Last summer, it was relatively cool and dry most of the time, both days and nights, with no real hot spells or high humidity. Time will tell for this summer. Significantly, maybe, on Sunday afternoon my wife and I teamed up to wrestle the room air conditioner into position in the bedroom window … and we used it last night.

In 2009, the AC unit never left the bedroom closet.

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I played a part in a pair of odd incidents over the weekend.

The first came early Saturday afternoon, when my wife asked me to help her out at church. She is a member of the church’s altar guild this month but couldn’t find anybody from her group to help out. I said OK.

The work involved making sure hymnals were pointing the right way (have done that before), changing the hymn numbers on the sign boards either side of the altar and changing the banners hanging from the front of the altar and pulpit for Pentecost Sunday. She did some other things, as well. As promised, it didn’t take very long–45 minutes, if that.

The other came Sunday night, just after I put her to bed in her air-conditioned bedroom. Each week at that time I count out my pills for the week and put them in those little segmented pill holders–my prescriptions, my daily baby aspirin and my daily multivitamin (senior edition). A normal Sunday night ritual that I want to complete before Charlie comes over to visit. Don’t really want the kitty to play with the pills.

I was in the bathroom, getting everything, when I heard shouting outside. I went to the window and looked. It was after 11 p.m., and things otherwise were quiet. I turned back, but then I heard it again.
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The May tradition

May is always a very busy month for me at work, and this May is living up to that tradition.

Last week was a bear, mainly because of track meets. I went to one near Iron Mountain on Tuesday. On Wednesday, I (we, actually) was right back in Iron Mountain to ride with my mom to the doctor’s. On Thursday, a 60-mile drive to get photos at a regional track tournament.

After three long drives on three consecutive days, I decided against making it four for four–I didn’t go to yet another regional tournament Friday afternoon. That one was a two-hour drive away–each way. The word from above is that my bosses would like me not to drive as much. After all, they pay me 30 cents a mile, and even a trip to Iron Mountain and back is nearly 100 miles. There are no short trips up here. (That’s why, when I finally get another car, gas mileage will be a big consideration.)

It was cloudy with a chance of showers on Friday and highs in the 60s. But I did my time on Thursday–that regional tournament was held in bright sunshine and temperatures in the mid 80s. Yes, I wore a wide-brimmed hat, and yes, I made sure to get the sunscreen on me. But it still got pretty hot, and I ducked out in the shade of a metal building for a while.

Just for a while. For most of the three hours that the meet lasted, I was walking here and there and hither and yon, trying to follow the action and get the best pictures as several different events took place at once. A lot of guesswork is involved. That’s what it’s like when you cover a track meet. And me without a split personality!
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Ancient scrolls and angel wings

We had been talking about a trip to southern Wisconsin for some time. My wife had heard about the Angel Museum in Beloit a year or so ago, and we made tentative plans to visit the next time we were near Madison. But we didn’t get down there in ’09.

Over the winter, she learned about a Dead Sea Scrolls exhibit at the Milwaukee Public Museum, and she wanted to see it. But she thought it would be there during the summer. Suddenly, a month or so ago, she learned the exhibit would close in early June. We had to move up our travel plans.

We moved them up to a week ago. We left on Thursday and went by way of Iron Mountain so we could visit my mom. We were there for about an hour and a half.

Then, it was all driving until we reached Oshkosh, where we visited S and her girlfriend. We took them to the Golden Corral and treated them to dinner, buffet style. All of us ate well. In between, S told me about the situation with her husband over the last months and years–they are separated now. I’m not going to go into it, but she told me things I wasn’t aware of before (but had suspected).

She and the GF are now living in the top floor of the house and paying half the household expenses–otherwise, she said, he would not be able to afford to keep it (he lost his job). I hope to visit them from time to time, but the next trip won’t be until June, after the spring sports seasons end. I got a picture of them outside the restaurant, which I gave the Photoshop Elements treatment …

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After about two hours, we were back on the road, heading south to Milwaukee’s northwest side. Along the way, we passed a windfarm near Fond du Lac. Try to count all the turbines. It was late in the day, with daylight fading, but you can see many of them turning in the wind …

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We found a motel for the night, and Friday morning we headed off to downtown Milwaukee and the Dead Sea Scrolls exhibit at the museum. Since I used to live in Milwaukee, I was somewhat familiar with how to get from here to there. But that was many years ago, so I planned ahead. I printed out Google Maps that showed which exit to take, which street to turn on and where to park. I was all ready. I put the maps in a safe place on my desk in the computer room at home.
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